Being Obsessed

When you fall in love with someone it is very hard not to be obsessed with them. You spend every waking moment thinking of them and when you fall asleep you dream about them.

The problem is when obsession starts to cross over in to stalker behaviour. This is when you work out their daily routine and make sure your paths cross. When you have a photo of them saved as your desktop wallpaper or when their facebook profile page is your homepage.

It’s hard when you first fall in love with someone not to go a little crazy but you have to keep yourself in check as this behaviour is not healthy. What you need to remember is that you are in love with the person you see but until you get to know them you can’t get carried away.

Just because you like what you see the person maybe a completely different person behind closed doors and they may just act differently when they are at work or at school. The person you are in love with may have a partner so this is something you need to find out right away. When you get to know the person your personalities might not match and so on and so on.

If you are in love with them and you know they are in love with you then be obsessed but until then deep breaths and take things slowly ok.

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